BEWARE OF THESE SEVEN (7) STATEMENTS IN YOUR MARRIAGE.

 

       Certainly, one will agree that there are a few things that spouse should try to avoid telling each other after getting married, else it will cause unreasonable quarrel and brings downright insulting to them in their marriage.

        Here are the seven statemenst:

1. "We shouldn't have gotten married" - This is very hurtful and totally threatening to your partner.

                      Unhappy couple 

 2. "I want a divorce"- Telling your spouse you want a divorce means your relationship is irredeemable and that mind set would erode your relationship faster.

 

      3.    "We can't talk now, I'm not in the mood".

           Using your moods to detect...

when you'll be able to talk about your relationship problems with your spouse could cause problems in your marriage in the long run.

 

 4. "You keep acting like your father/mother".  

        It doesn't matter how heated your argument becomes, try not to compare your spouse's flaws with their parents' negative attributes.

       That's simply going below the belt.

 5. "Shut up" - This is downright disrespectful to your partner

 

 6.     "Why don't you just do what I ask you to do?"- Your marriage is heading for disaster if this sentence keeps reoccurring in your speech and before you know it, things will gradually to wrong way.

 7.     "Will you relax"- You aren't really telling your spouse to relax here, the hostility in your voice is enough to begin another argument.