A female child in a Nigerian home is the pride of her parents and as
such, they do all they can to imbibe the right values into her, so she
doesn’t bring ‘disgrace’ to the family.
In doing that, many parents
resort to very unconventional ways of keeping their daughters in line. It
isn’t rare to hear a Nigerian mother say ‘who was that boy you were
talking to outside, at your age I wasn’t talking to any boy’ .
All these
just to mold her into a descent girl. Reminiscent of how most Nigerian
girls were brought up.
Here, are various way
s in which Nigerian parents pass serious warnings to their female child(ren) just to avoid them being around with boys at all times.....
1.
Don’t listen to boys, they just want what’s between your legs
Nigerian
mothers can swear to their daughters that all a boy wants from them, is to have a bite
of the cookey. No Nigerian girl will ever pray for the day that her mother, father or older relatives bumps into her talking to a boy on a lonely street. In a young girl’s world, that is called, 'TRAGEDY'.
2.
Don't move close to boys, else you will get pregnant
When a
Nigerian mother say this to her daughter, she means it literally. The girl would only
have to grow up to understand that getting close to a boy is...